I have struggled with people-pleasing for most of my life. As a kid, I think I had a positive tendency to obey authorities in my life, but as an adult, I added to that dynamic a tendency to avoid correction or conflict. And the only alternative is to keep everybody around me happy while bottling up my own feelings of frustration and disagreement.
You have only one person to please – your Creator. Serve others. Encourage others. Seek to accept and work well alongside others. But live to please an audience of One – Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.
Lectionary Preaching Starter Thoughts
Proper 19 (24) - September 13, 2026
Exodus 14:19–31
God’s interest in causing the people of Israel to flourish highlights the way God wants his people to flourish today—with an awareness of his accompanying presence.
Psalm 114:1–8
To “tremble” is to stand in absolute awe of the power of the ever-present Lord, whose power is always on display as provider and protector.
Romans 14:1–12
You are not an island. We depend on one another as part of a community committed to the flourishing of human life in the world. We are accountable to one another—and to God—for our lives.
Matthew 18:21–35
Holding anyone in unforgiveness doesn’t really affect the offender as much as it holds the offended hostage to a false assurance that justice and equity will be met now, in this age.
Recommended Sermon Series
A fitting series for congregations working through conflict, forgiveness, justice, and the hard work of flourishing together.
Helpful Links for Pastors
State of Clergy Well-Being in 2025 — Duke Clergy Health Collaborative
Research on improving burnout trends and the conditions that help clergy serve well. Read the research…
The State of Pastors, Volume 2 — Barna
Research on pastoral resilience, self-leadership, church leadership, and cultural leadership. Read the report…
Why Pastors Leave — Lifeway Research
Data on why pastors leave and what supports long-term ministry health. See the research…
Church Finance Trends 2026
A practical report on stewardship, financial planning, board involvement, and decision-making. Read the article…
Rural Churches Today Report
Research and resources for understanding the distinctive realities facing rural congregations. See the full report…
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